I Am Who I Say I Am
I Am Who I Say I Am

On Dislocation, Disappearance, and Destiny
I wish I could tell you any kind of history beyond where my family is geographically from in China. Instead I have learned to make peace and love my independence.

If That’s Tradition, I Don’t Want It
Maybe it’s my youth talking, or maybe it’s my Western upbringing; I admit that, but it doesn’t change my belief that some parts of tradition are just, well, wrong.

Balancing the Elements of East and West
Being in my element really means being in the in-between of East or West, and loving every minute of it.

Woman, Wife, Widow, Mother, Other?
I have always believed that life experiences change you. With new experiences come new perspectives, new ideas, new people even. It's not a bad thing, we are all work in progress continually throughout our lives.

The Practice of Belonging
It takes intentionality to belong and isn’t limited to heritage or ethnicity; it’s a shared goal to create and foster mutually supportive relationships with each other.

Anti-hero (Sabaitide’s Version)
I’ve been hyped up to take ownership of my haunting underachievements because I’m an empowered woman who listens to way too much Taylor Swift.